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The St Vincent de Paul Society invites you to help them help those in need.

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Might you be called to pray and work with us to help those in need?

The St Vincent de Paul ministry first and foremost is intended to immerse its members in a Vincentian spirituality – seeing the face of Christ in those we serve, while being the face of Christ to those we serve.

Our St Vincent de Paul Society Conference aims to help those in need residing in Franklin Township.  Anyone in need can come to us regardless of religious affiliation.

Based on the most recent census data, Franklin Township is the largest town by population in all of Somerset County with a population approaching 69,000 residents. The poverty level in Franklin Township is estimated to be from 4.2% to as high as 9.1% depending on the neighborhood (somewhere between 3000 to 6,279 men, women, and children).

In 2024, we assisted 200 households. Our assistance amounted to one hundred eleven thousand dollars, of which ninety-eight thousand dollars were utilized to provide housing for our Neighbors.  In addition, we have sent contributions to help the victims of the fires in Los Angeles County, and we have continued a quarterly contribution to a school in Port-au-Prince Haiti run by the Daughters of Charity, a Vincentian religious order.

All this has been made possible because of the stewardship in this community which has a history of sharing of our Time, Talent, and Treasure.  In the case of the St Vincent de Paul Society, we give of our:

  • Time – Time spent in prayer for our benefactors as well as our clients. Time spent interviewing clients either by Zoom or Face to Face meetings. Time in researching potential sources of help from the government/public sector as well as from our Conference funding.
  • Talent – bringing to the group, and to our clients our life experiences and faith that are key in problem-solving and planning to assist those in need.
  • Treasure – comes from our community in the form of financial contributions shared through special collections throughout the year, from individual contributors who have committed to regular, periodic donations, and by contributions to the poor boxes at the doors of the church.

The COVID pandemic severely impacted our client base, and the current economic situation has erased any wage progress made by our Neighbors over the past 5 years.  In addition, landlords have become intolerant of even one day’s delay in rent payments. As a result, they will attach late fees and begin the court order eviction process that includes additional legal fees billed to the Neighbor.

Over the past couple of years, our member numbers have decreased for a variety of reasons.  The work is sometimes hard but is extremely rewarding.  What we ask is for you to discern whether you might be called to pray and work with us to help those in need.

For further information, you can reach us by email at SVDPatSM@gmail.com

Bob Cherill,
Conference President
SVDP at St Matthias

Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

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Dear Friends,

In another week, we will be at the threshold of the holy season of Lent. Ash Wednesday is on March 5 – a day of fast and abstinence. The Jubilee Year 2025 makes this Lent special as both remind us of the journey of life with the Word of God. During Lent every year, our Small Faith-sharing groups become more active than ever, reflecting on the Scriptures. The participants are greatly enriched with their experience in small gatherings – at church and at homes. Some may wonder why this insistence on small groups? Here are some reasons:

  • Small groups are biblical.
  • Small groups allow us to dialog with people of differing views.
  • Small groups give us a place to talk about personal and spiritual things in a safe environment.
  • Small groups help us to experience the power of love and prayer.
  • A small group provides us with much needed support and encouragement.
  • A small group helps facilitate our faith journey.

This year a special faith-sharing resource based on the jubilee theme: “Pilgrims of Hope” has been prepared by RENEW International. They have aptly titled it as “Jubilee: Join the Journey of Hope.” I found them very helpful. The six sessions include topics such as:

  • Materialism versus gospel values
  • Care for those in poverty, the sick, and the elderly
  • Concern for young people
  • Compassion and encouragement for prisoners; rejection of the death penalty
  • Welcome for strangers
  • Forgiveness and reconciliation

These sessions call us to grow closer to God and one another. The testimonies you hear from our own parishioners speak for themselves as to what these small group meetings can do to you personally and for your family.

As I often mention while inviting us all to join small groups, there is no requirement for a long term commitment, but a desire to attend just six sessions during the six weeks of Lent. Let us listen to the promptings that the Spirit of God is giving us and act upon them without procrastinating.

Many Catholics will take part in the Jubilee by traveling to Rome or to the Holy Land. But for most of us the more practical way to be a part of a Church “on the move” is through personal reflection and sharing in a small group during Lent. For signing up, please contact Debbie Schurko, our Director of Religious Education, at:  dschurko@stmatthias.net

Give yourself a chance, and see the difference it will make in your life, especially this Lent!

Your brother in Christ,

Fr. Abraham Orapankal

 

Volunteers Needed for Ash Wednesday Drive-Thru

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Once again, St. Matthias will offer Drive-Through Ashes come rain or shine (or snow), in addition to 3 Masses and 1 prayer service.

For the past several years, we have found that for health reasons, family commitments, work schedules, and other conflicts, some people are unable to come to one of the 4 Services in the church on Ash Wednesday. However, we have made it possible for many of these individuals to join us for the distribution of ashes through our Drive-Through Ashes ministry. Please know that all are welcome!

We would greatly appreciate your assistance if you are able to help distribute ashes on Wednesday, March 5th. The 1st shift is from 3:45 pm to 4:45 pm and the 2nd shift is from 4:45 pm to 5:45 pm. Please click here to sign up for one or both of our time slots. Thank you.

Know Your Rights: Immigrants, Organizations, and Businessess

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IMMIGRATION IMPLEMENTATION CONCERNS

Recently, there have been concerns about implementing the Immigration laws, creating some confusion in the general public. The U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) issued a statement on its long-time partnership with the federal government to serve refugees:

“Faithful to the teaching of Jesus Christ, the Catholic Church has a long history of serving refugees. In 1980, the bishops of the United States began partnering with the federal government to carry out this service when Congress created the U.S. Refugee Admissions Program (USRAP). Every person resettled through USRAP is vetted and approved for the program by the federal government while outside of the United States. …” To read the full text, please visit:

https://www.usccb.org/news/2025/usccb-statement-its-work-us-refugee-admissions-program

If you need this information translated, please visit  ONA website (click on the dropdown that says “more languages” beneath each resource).

The threat of immigration enforcement raises concerns among many residents of New Jersey. It is essential to remember that every person in New Jersey—regardless of citizenship or immigration status—has rights. This guide outlines crucial information for individuals, organizations, and businesses to help navigate interactions with Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) or U.S. Customs and Border Protection (CBP) officers.

For Individuals

In Public Spaces

  • ICE can enter public spaces without a warrant (e.g., office lobbies, restaurants, or stores).
  • You may:
    • Ask for identification and the agency they represent.
    • Ask if you are free to leave.
    • You have the right to remain silent. You may tell the immigration agent, “I choose to remain silent.”
    • You may refuse consent to searches unless there is probable cause or a valid warrant.
    • Request an interpreter if needed.

If Detained

At Home

  • ICE needs a valid judicial warrant to enter your home, except in emergencies.
    • Verify the warrant through a window or under the door. It must be signed by a judge and state “U.S. District Court” or a state court.
    • Administrative warrants (e.g., Forms I-200 or I-205) are not sufficient for entry.
  • If agents enter without consent, remain calm, state your rights, and document the interaction.

Immigration agents are permitted to enter without your permission in an emergency, such as a threat to public safety or a threat to someone’s life. However, you still have a right to remain silent and document the interaction, including recording (so long as you don’t interfere with their law enforcement activities).

For Businesses and Organizations

In Public Areas

  • Public spaces include dining areas, parking lots, or office lobbies. ICE can enter these areas but still requires probable cause or individual consent to detain anyone.

In Private Areas

  • Clearly distinguish private areas with signage (e.g., “Employees Only” or “Authorized Personnel Only”).
  • ICE cannot enter private areas without:
    • Your permission, OR
    • A judicial warrant signed by a judge, OR
    • An emergency situation, such as a public safety threat.

If ICE Visits Your Premises

  • Ask for identification and their purpose.
  • Verify the validity of any warrant presented.
  • You may refuse consent to searches without a valid warrant. If they proceed, do not resist; instead, state, “I do not consent to this search. I wish to remain silent and speak with an attorney.”
  • Document interactions, including recording (if lawful and non-interfering).

Protecting Against Fraud

Be cautious of individuals claiming to be “immigration consultants” or “notarios.” Only licensed attorneys or accredited representatives authorized by USCIS can assist with legal immigration matters.

  • Verify credentials through public attorney databases or government listings of accredited representatives.
  • Report immigration scams to the New Jersey Division of Consumer Affairs at 1-800-242-5846.

Resources and Additional Information

Know Your Rights (PDF) Individuals (English)

Know Your Rights (PDF) Individuals (Spanish)

Know Your Rights (PDF) Businesses (English)

Know Your Rights (PDF) Businesses (Spanish)

Mariano Press and St. Matthias Church giving back to the community!

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A great email from Mariano Press, the company that prints and laminates our tree signs!

Thank you for your continued trust and partnership with us. Through your business, you’ve helped us create 64 meals for Americans in need through our Offsetting Hunger Initiative, in which we donate a portion of our gross sales to Feeding America. To learn more about this program or share your impact, please visit our website at www.marianopress.com/offset-hunger .  Attached, you’ll also find your shareable virtual certificate.

As your dedicated printing partner, we would welcome the opportunity to provide competitive pricing on any projects you’re considering with other vendors. This includes paper printing, labels, packaging, mailings, signs, promotional items, and decorated uniforms and apparel.

We’re excited to announce that we’re expanding our Offsetting Hunger initiative through a referral program. For every referral that results in an order, we’ll donate the equivalent of 100 additional meals through Feeding America. If you know anyone seeking printing or promotional services, now is the perfect time to connect them with us. Together, we can multiply our impact and make an even bigger difference!

Your choice to partner with us for your printing needs means the world to us. If you’re satisfied with our services, we would be grateful if you would share our information with others. Every new project helps us put more meals on the tables of those in need. Let us help take projects off your colleagues’ plates while putting meals on others’.

Thank you again for your continued support!

Thanks to all of our customers we have now reached over 480,000 meals donated!

Jeremy Mariano
Mariano Press, LLC Working to Offset Hunger.

Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time

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Dear Friends,

My home visit was very refreshing. My time with my family, especially with my 91-year-old mom, was very uplifting. I thank God she is amazingly healthy for her age as she can move about in the house and attend Mass online regularly. I’m very grateful for the prayerful support of so many of you before, during, and after my trip. In particular, I’m very grateful to Fr. Lancelot McGrath for taking care of the parish with the help of our Office staff.

On my way to India, I had a two-day break in Dubai/Sharjah to be with my sister Dolly and family. The next day of my arrival was a Sunday and so we went to Church for Mass. The Islamic/Arab government has given a church for Catholic Mass. Even though that church has a seating capacity of 800, they have 10 Masses on Sundays as the immigrant Catholic population is so huge. We went early and stood outside with a sizable crowd waiting for the previous Mass to be over so we could get a seat. By the time our Mass began, all seats were taken and over a hundred people were standing on the sides and back of the church. It was a sight to see when the Eucharistic Ministers came in from the Sacristy in their white uniform. I counted 23 of them. As we came out of the Mass, the next crowd was already waiting to get in for a seat! I was so touched to see the sincere devotion, prayerful silence and the total participation of the entire congregation in the liturgy. What an inspiration for me!

As we came out of the Church, there were volunteers distributing a booklet, containing prayers and devotions to help the parishioners celebrate the Jubilee Year 2025 well. It was prepared by the Diocese or Apostolic Vicariate of Southern Arabia. I thought of the Jubilee Year inauguration we had last month – on January 12. At that time, I had mentioned two easily accessible resources that we all could use: Catholic Brain (with lots of informative and fun stuff for growing in our faith) and Rosary Podcasts (for practicing one of the timeless devotional prayers of our church). These can be used at our own convenience. As part of our efforts to deepen our spirituality, we are offering:

1)   A Retreat for the whole parish on Saturday, March 15. Do you know Lent begins in a couple of weeks? Ash Wednesday is on March 5. The theme, “Pilgrims of Hope Renewed …a Lenten Path to New Life” is very appropriate for this Jubilee Year. So I invite all of us to keep that Saturday morning free for this Spiritually enriching time.

2)  Anointing Mass on March 22:  Our Mass with Anointing of the sick will be on Saturday 11 AM, March 22. Kindly note the date so that families can plan to bring to church those in need of prayers for healing and the Sacrament of Anointing.

I wish to conclude by repeating part of the Jubilee Prayer that Pope Francis has penned: “May the grace of the Jubilee reawaken in us, Pilgrims of Hope, a yearning for the  treasures of heaven. May that same grace spread the joy and peace of our Redeemer throughout the earth. To you our God, eternally blessed, be glory and praise for ever, Amen.”

Let us joyfully and prayerfully make this Jubilee Year 2025 a time of grace and an opportunity to grow in holiness.

Your brother in Christ,

Fr. Abraham Orapankal

 

Live Lent 2025

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This will be your ideal companion as you gather weekly in your small group to gain inspiration during this Jubilee Year of Hope.

           Come and Join the Journey of Hope

Start for the first time or continue with a St. Matthias Small Faith Sharing Group!

We have15+ groups that meet on various days/times of the week.

If you are new to this experience, please click here to sign up.

Facilitators will be contacting group members who have been part of their group. Each group likely will be meeting either on Zoom or in person, usually on the same date/time.

Groups will begin the week of March 2. New members, please sign‐up by February 28th. Most groups will be using the same resource.

In Small Faith Groups, there’s always new insights we receive from the Scriptures.  Insights that benefit us the rest of our lives. For everyone there is a need to pause, reflect, and pray. Let us take this time during Lent to Journey in Hope with each other.

 

Make a friend, Be a friend, Bring a friend to Christ

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Metuchen Cursillo Movement 

 Annual Lenten Encounter with Christ 

Saturday, April 5, 2025 

8:30 a.m. – 1:00 p.m. 

Mary, Mother of God Church 

157 S. Triangle Road Hillsborough, NJ

The Mission will continue…

Very Rev. Timothy Christy  (St. Francis Cathedral, Metuchen)

Dcn. Sal Bonfiglio, OFS

(Mary, Mother of God Church, Hillsborough) Share In:

Mass, Stations of the Cross, Keynote Speakers , Adoration

Benediction, Confession

Please Register: 

https://annual-lenten-encounter-with-christ.cheddarup.com

Breakfast Delights

No Admission Fee/Free Will Offering

Make a friend, be a friend, bring a friend to Christ 

 

Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time

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A Message from Deacon Ron

Dear Friends,

Gratitude is a powerful force that can transform our lives and the lives of those around us. It is the reconditioning of the things we have, the people who support us, and the opportunities we are given. When we cultivate a grateful heart, we open ourselves to a deeper sense of joy, peace, and fulfillment. In the bustle of our daily lives, it is easy to take things for granted.

We often focus on what we lack rather than what we have. But when we pause to reflect on our blessings, we begin to see the abundance that surrounds us. Gratitude shifts our perspective from scarcity to abundance, from negativity to positivity. Being grateful does not mean ignoring the challenges and difficulties we face. Instead, it means acknowledging them and finding the silver linings within them. It means recognizing that even in the midst of hardship, there are still things to be thankful for. This mindset helps us build resilience and find strength in adversity. Gratitude also fosters a sense of connection and community. When we express our appreciation to others, we strengthen our relationships and create a ripple effect of kindness. A simple “thank you” can brighten someone’s day and remind them that they are valued. By practicing gratitude, we contribute to a culture of positivity and support. Let us take a moment each day to reflect on the people and the things we are grateful for. It could be as simple as the warmth of the sun, the smile of a loved one, or the opportunity to learn and grow. By making gratitude a daily practice, we can transform our lives and the world around us. May we all strive to cultivate a grateful heart and live each day with an attitude of gratitude.

Amen.

 

Cancelled – Knights of Columbus Pancake Breakfast February 9th

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Cancelled due to the expected inclement weather.

The Knights of Columbus will hold its annual Pancake Breakfast in honor of Past Grand Knight Robert Norland next Sunday, February 9th from 8:00 am – 12:00 noon in the school cafeteria. Proceeds from the breakfast will benefit St. Matthias School Tuition Angels.  

The cost is $12.00 for adults, $5.00 for ages 10-18 and children under 10 are free.

The breakfast menu is pancakes, eggs, sausage, bagels, juice, coffee, and much more.

We look forward to seeing you there!