Sixth Sunday of Easter

 

Dear Friends,

Tomorrow is the feast of Philip Neri, who is the patron saint of joy and laughter. I wish to reflect with you on this important theme. On May 14, the Feast of our patron Saint Matthias, the gospel reading had this line from Jesus: “These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be full.” (John 15: 11). In the following chapter, Jesus said, “I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy away from you” (John 16:22). Jesus was a joyful person (though this topic is not often highlighted nor preached about sufficiently) and Philip Neri followed that joyful spirit in his own life. So let us look at each:

Do the gospels contain indications that Jesus was joyful or humorous? Yes. The verse I quoted above (John 15:11) was said by Jesus at the last supper, just before his agony in the garden, all the while aware of his impending betrayal, torture, and crucifixion. He was conscious of the personal joy in his heart, and he wanted to pass it on to his disciples and to us.

Gospels testifies that during his years of ministry, little children came to Jesus, and mothers brought their babies to him, and he took to them easily. If Jesus were to be a serious person, children would not have gone to him. Years ago I read a book titled “The humor of Jesus,” where the author showed how Jesus used the kind of humor prevalent in the Jewish society of that time, which was exaggerated comparison. Things like a “camel going through the eye of a needle,” “a blind leading a blind and both falling down,” or a “log in your neighbor’s eye” were very humorous to his audiences, and we can assume that they roared in laughter.

St. Philip Neri realized that Jesus was truly anointed with the oil of gladness and so wanted to make this joy of Jesus his own. St. Philip Neri was known as the “Second Apostle of Rome” for his extraordinary evangelical work in 16th-century Rome. He was well known to have had a remarkable sense of humor and a great love for laughter. He used to show up to important events with half his beard shaved or give incorrect walking directions to his disciples to have a laugh at their expense. He would read a book of jokes to enjoy himself as well as regale others with laughter. He believed that these behaviors helped him to connect with other people through being present and humble.

St. Philip Neri founded the Confederation of Oratories of Saint Philip Neri (Latin: Confoederatio Oratorii Sancti Philippi Nerii), abbreviated C.O. and commonly known as the Oratorians. Theirs is a Catholic society of apostolic life of pontifical right for men (priests and religious brothers), living in community. In our own diocese we are privileged to have the Oratorians at St. Ann, St. Joseph, and Blessed Sacrament Shrine – all in Raritan, and at Holy Trinity in Bridgewater. We wish them a very happy feast of their patron. We can ask ourselves: How can we be apostles of joy today? St. Philip suggests, “Have all the fun you want, but just don’t offend God.” We can also keep in mind the words of St. Paul: “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” (Phil 4:4-6).

We will have a picture of a smiling Jesus in our church so that we can be reminded to keep His  joy in our hearts and be joyful as Jesus was.

Your brother in Christ,

Fr. Abraham Orapankal

 

Fifth Sunday of Easter

 

Dear Friends,

By now, we have heard a lot about our new Pope – Leo XIV, formerly Cardinal Robert Francis Prevost. The excitement continues with the totally unexpected choice of an American pope by the Cardinals who attended the Conclave. Though the new Pope is American, now he belongs to the whole world. As one commentator said, one-third of his life was in the US, one-third in Rome, and one-third in Peru. His varied experience – missionary life in Peru, work in the Vatican Dicastry, and American upbringing – will have a bearing on his ability to steer the bark of Peter for years to come.

What is less known may be that he belongs to an order or religious congregation. As we know, Pope Francis was a Jesuit. Pope Leo XIV is an Augustinian, and the first member of the Order of St. Augustine to become a pope. The Augustinian Order, fundamentally based upon the teachings of Jesus Christ and later of St. Augustine, the Bishop of Hippo (354 – 430 A.D.), was founded to live and promote the spirit of community as lived by the first Christian communities (Acts of the Apostles 4, 32-35). It was founded in 1244, when Pope Innocent IV united various groups of hermits in service to the Universal Church as a community of Mendicant Friars. The Order, from its very beginning, has recognized Saint Augustine of Hippo as its father, teacher, and spiritual guide, not only because it has received the “Rule” and the name of the Order from him, but also because it has received from him its doctrine and spirituality.

In his very address to the world as he first appeared at the balcony of St. Peter’s Vatican, Pope Leo said: I am an Augustinian, a son of Saint Augustine, who once said, “With you I am a Christian, and for you I am a bishop.”  In this sense, all of us can journey together toward the homeland that God has prepared for us.” That brings so much hope and good feeling about the new papacy. In his first homily the next day of the election, the pope pledged to be a “faithful administrator” of the Catholic church and outlined that the church needs to continue its “missionary outreach.”

These words resonated with me personally as I was a missionary back in India for many years. In our American context, we can easily relate to his exhortation to be a missionary church. “A lack of faith,” Pope Leo underscored, “is often tragically accompanied by the loss of meaning in life, the neglect of mercy, appalling violations of human dignity, the crisis of the family and so many other wounds that afflict our society.” Today, he observed, “there are many settings in which Jesus, although appreciated as a man, is reduced to a kind of charismatic leader or superman.”

Acknowledging this happens “not only among non-believers but also among many baptized Christians,” Pope Leo warned that, as such, they “end up living, at this level, in a state of practical atheism.” With this in mind, Pope Leo reassured the congregation, “This is the world that has been entrusted to us, a world in which, as Pope Francis taught us so many times, we are called to bear witness to our joyful faith in Christ the Saviour.” “Therefore,” he continued, “it is essential that we too repeat, with Peter: ‘You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.'”

We thank God for the gift of this pope, this son of our land, as the chief shepherd of the People of God for the whole world. May God continue to use him as the worthy successor of St. Peter.

Your brother in Christ,

Fr. Abraham Orapankal

 

Car Wash Fundraiser

   Cub Scout Pack 195 / Boy Scout Troop 154

CAR WASH FUNDRAISER

All proceeds from the event will help fund Pack 195 and Troop 154 Scout Activity Program

SATURDAY, May 24th, 2025

10 AM – 3 PM  

(rain date: May 31st)

St. Matthias Church

Suggested Donation (cash or check): Car – $10, Minivan/SUV – $15

More information: www.scoutpack195nj.com

 

Fourth Sunday of Easter

 

Dear Friends,

Today is Happy Mother’s Day! And the World Day of Prayer for Vocations! These two occasions, converging this year on the fourth Sunday of Easter, have a special significance. Today’s gospel is about Jesus the good shepherd, and so today is known as Good Shepherd Sunday. Every year on this fourth Sunday of Easter, the gospel gives insight into Jesus Christ our Good Shepherd who said about his sheep: “I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish. No one can take them out of my hand..” (John 10:27-28).

How appropriate that the shepherding qualities are lived by the mothers. A shepherding mother guides, nurtures, and protects her children, providing love, support, and wise counsel. She is a source of strength and guidance, helping them navigate life’s challenges to grow in maturity. Shepherding mothers offer encouragement and counsel, and love them unconditionally. We have so many such mothers and grandmothers in our lives and in our community. We salute them today for their vocation to motherhood. We want them to know how much we appreciate their selfless dedication to nurturing their children, young and not so young. We cannot forget many other women who may not have children of their own and yet do a lot of shepherding: mothers who have adopted, step-mothers, teachers, counselors, catechists, godmothers, etc. We remember all of them and ask for God’s continued blessings upon them. We also pray this day for those who struggled to be a mother, those who, because of circumstances, could not be a mother, and for those who have experienced miscarriages, stillbirths, crib deaths, or the death of a child because of illness, accident, or violence.

Today, the church all over the world prays for vocations. As Catholics, we firmly believe that God has a plan for our lives! He calls some to marriage, some to the priesthood, and others to religious life or to live as generous single people. In one of the homilies by St. John Paul II said: “Jesus has a specific task in life for each and every one of us. Each one of us is hand-picked, called by name by Jesus! There is no one among us who does not have a divine vocation! Some are called audibly by God, but the usual kind of call is internal, through the inner working of the Spirit.” Fully living our own vocations—and teaching young people how to discern God’s call—is a serious duty, but also a joyful one. During this week, please encourage the young people in your life—children, grandchildren, students, and friends—to be open if God calls them to priesthood or religious life.

The feast of St. Matthias, our Parish Patron, is on May 14. Though it falls on a weekday, we need to be reminded of the importance of this saint who was chosen to replace Judas. Even a week ago, some people asked me about confusing St. Matthias with St. Matthew. I explained. The Acts of the Apostles 1:12-26 narrates beautifully why the 11 Apostles felt that they had to have a 12th one. St. Peter said that they had to “choose one of the men who have been with us the whole time the Lord Jesus was living among us,  beginning from John’s baptism to the time when Jesus was taken up from us. For one of these must become a witness with us of his resurrection.” There were two candidates who met these two conditions. Therefore “they cast lots, and the lot fell to Matthias; so he was added to the eleven apostles.” (Acts 1:26) and Matthias was chosen by lot. Our Patron saint invites us to imitate him by being with Jesus and being a witness of the resurrection of Jesus.

Your brother in Christ,

Fr. Abraham Orapankal

 

FR. TOM LANZA IS APPOINTED AS OUR NEW PASTOR

 

My Dear Parishioners,

Bishop Checchio has asked me to announce that, after taking into account the information he received from your participation in the Parish Listening Sessions here in early March, and having consulted with the Priest Personnel Board, he has appointed the Reverend Thomas Lanza to succeed me as your Pastor here at Saint Matthias beginning on August 1, 2025.

Father Lanza currently serves as the Vocation Recruiter for the Diocese and as a Chaplain at the Catholic Center at Rutgers and at Saint Joseph’s High School in Metuchen.  Father has been a priest since 2020.  He has a strong reputation as an energetic and affable priestly leader. 

Bishop asks that you keep Father Lanza, your parish, and all our priests in your prayers.  Bishop would also be grateful for your prayers for him and wants you to know that you are remembered in his prayers every day.

Naturally that brings up the next question: what about me? Bishop has asked me to be the pastor at Our Lady of Peace in Fords, beginning on August 1, 2025.

Continued Easter Blessings!

Fr. Abraham Orapankal

Third Sunday of Easter

 

Dear Friends,

Today is the fourth day in May, and many of us know this date as Star Wars Day because of the phrase, “May the force be with you,” used by Jedi masters in the Star Wars movies. While not officially declared, the holiday has been embraced by fans and the Walt Disney Company. I have seen our school students having fun on this day in the past when it fell on a weekday.

I always smile at this phrase of Jedi “May the force be with you,” because even though the sci-fi community in general does not acknowledge the existence of God, this phrase sounds to me, as a clear admission that there is a higher power beyond their control and as their way of surrendering the outcome of a dangerous mission to this higher power they name as “Force” that we Christians name as God or Jesus Christ.

Today, we conclude the Novendiales or Novena in memory of Pope Francis, whose passing brought an unprecedented focus on the Catholic Church in general, and the papacy of Francis in particular. As I mentioned in my homily, it is very important and beneficial for us to reflect on the legacy of Pope Francis. Some asked me about the criticisms of Francis. My only answer is that Jesus himself was criticized, so why are we surprised that Pope Francis is also criticized? And on every point of criticism, I pointed out that Francis was doing exactly the mind of Jesus, even when it brought about some ambiguity and confusion which was meant to make us all rethink and re-evaluate our own attitudes. Therefore, let us reflect on how we might personally have grown because of his words, writings, and witness.

What made Pope Francis so endearing to the whole world? As the archbishop of Buenos Aires, Bergolio was unpopular with many Argentine politicians because he had been a staunch and brave critic of the corruption and economic inequality there. During Argentina’s military dictatorship in the 1970’s, he was sent into de facto exile in Frankfurt, Germany, and then to the remote Córdoba, Argentina. These difficult years shaped his compassionate worldview and strengthened his resolve to stand with those facing injustice.

Besides his political activism, what often endeared Pope Francis to all was his simplicity, coupled with his tireless immersion in poor communities.  The world saw the way he was able to blend in with the very ordinary people. While his actions of humility and simplicity raised many eyebrows in the establishment, he became all the more endearing to the world. Asking for a blessing from the crowds at his first appearance as pope, refusing to live in the luxurious penthouse of the papal apartments and choosing the modest two-room suite in the Vatican’s Saint Martha guesthouse, carrying his own luggage and paying his own hotel bills, washing the feet of women and even non catholic prisoners, driving a modest, 20-year-old white Renault, wearing the black leather shoes instead of the traditional red papal footwear, … the list goes on, a list that made him very unique in the history of the papacy.

But his teachings and writings have promoted a spirituality that is easy for even the very ordinary folks to understand and relate to. All of us can learn a lot from Pope Francis to be simple and humble. We too can spread the joy of the gospel as he did so warm-heartedly. May he rest in peace.

Your brother in Christ,

Fr. Abraham Orapankal

 

Join Our Diocesan Jubilee Pilgrimage

The Diocese of Metuchen Jubilee Pilgrimage to the Basilica of the  National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in Washington D.C., with our Bishop James Checchio, will be on September 20, 2025. Parishes will be organizing their own charter buses. St. Matthias is considering the possibility of chartering a bus if there is sufficient interest. If you are interested, please sign up so that we can plan the trip, cost per person, etc., accordingly.

To add your name on the list of those interested in joining the pilgrimage, please click here.

Sunday of Divine Mercy

 

Dear Friends,

Last Monday morning, we all woke up to the sad and shocking news of the death of Pope Francis. Ever since, there has been constant coverage about his life, achievements, and legacy, and speculations about his successor. We, the Catholic Community of St. Matthias, mourn his death, as we thank God for the gift he was to the Church and to the world, for the many ways he has inspired the whole world with his wisdom, compassion, and commitment to Jesus Christ. To the church, he was a reformer who made the church more welcoming and inclusive. To the world, he was a voice that called for unity, peace, and justice, especially championing the cause of those marginalized.

All this media coverage about the life and legacy of Pope Francis is truly a time of evangelization. The world is coming to know more about Jesus Christ and His mission in and through the church, and especially through the papacy. We thank God for the good shepherding that Pope Francis gave to the church and the world.

Today is Divine Mercy Sunday. Pope Francis always preached mercy, but more importantly, he practiced it. He showed everybody, in a very tangible way, the endless capacity of God’s mercy and forgiveness. Proclaiming the special Jubilee Year of Mercy of 2016, Francis reminded us that the name of God is “mercy” (Exodus 34:6) and asked us all to enter the great ocean of God’s mercy: “How many are the expressions of mercy with which God encounters us? They are numerous and it is impossible to describe them all, for the mercy of God continually increases. God never tires of showing us mercy and we should never take for granted the opportunity to receive, seek, and desire this mercy. It is something always new, which inspires awe and wonder as we see God’s immense creativity in the ways he comes to meet us.”

We know that today’s feast was instituted by St. John Paul II, in order to realize the depth of the mercy of God for each one of us personally. Saint Faustina’s diary entry # 206 has these words Jesus told her: “On the day of My feast, the Feast of Mercy, you will go through the whole world and bring fainting souls to the spring of My mercy.  I shall heal and strengthen them”. Pope Francis has been an ardent promoter of divine mercy. His first book as pope is titled: The Name of God is Mercy. Four years ago, on the 90th anniversary (1931-2021) of the first apparition to St. Faustina. Pope exhorted all to “pass on the fire of Jesus’ merciful love.”

And yet, today’s gospel is about doubting the resurrection of Jesus by one of the 12 Apostles! Presenting the famous profession of Faith from Thomas, “My Lord and my God,” the Gospel illustrates how Jesus showed his mercy to this doubting apostle and emphasizes the importance of faith and surrender. Please read elsewhere in today’s bulletin what St. Thomas accomplished with his reaffirmed faith converting many in the south of India who continue to live and pass on the same faith under the large community of Syrian Christians among whom is a big segment of Catholics. The experience of Thomas invites us to be liberated from doubts and reservations about our faith, first by verbalizing our doubts and trying to get answers from those who know, and second by surrendering our lives to the Risen Lord of mercy and hope.

Your brother in Christ,

Fr. Abraham Orapankal